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shift
12-26-2004, 07:59 PM
ok i know this is a truck site not a "help me wiht my problems" site, but i have a situation, before i recieved my titan i drove an 83 chevy silverado, and my friend and i always hungout (i was actually like a group of 5 ppl) and then i got my titan and now none of them hangout with me anymore, and the main friend constantly tries to make fun of my truck by saying "i never knew nissan didnt put power windows on a big truck, u must have gotten the sh..ty one" and its really startin to piss me off cuz none of them want to hangout with me anymore, so i was wondering what i should do, i was thinkin either punch him in the face or f... with his car or sunthin, but i imagine u wiser ppl would have a better suggestion. thanks

M4ck
12-26-2004, 08:43 PM
First off if its just in fun I'd probably overlook it. Seocond thing is people sometimes act this way out of jealousy. Third if someone treats you different because of the vehicle you drive they probably werent a real friend in the first place. True friendship does not take into consideration the make or type of automobile you have or dont have. I say go to this friend if he is a true friend and you really do value his friendship and tell him he is making you upset. If he is your friend he will drop it and never bring it back up.
M4ck

firecracker
12-26-2004, 10:19 PM
First off if its just in fun I'd probably overlook it. Seocond thing is people sometimes act this way out of jealousy. Third if someone treats you different because of the vehicle you drive they probably werent a real friend in the first place. True friendship does not take into consideration the make or type of automobile you have or dont have. I say go to this friend if he is a true friend and you really do value his friendship and tell him he is making you upset. If he is your friend he will drop it and never bring it back up.
M4ck


Ditto!

NateL
12-26-2004, 10:46 PM
I'd start shopping for new friends.

SMOKEDYA2
12-27-2004, 04:18 AM
pepole cant stand that we have a good product in our possesion and its better than there crapy trucks. i have a few pepole i work with that are the exact same way, i just let it go in 1 ear and out the other.

12-27-2004, 11:21 AM
people cant stand that we have a good product in our possession and its better than there crappy trucks. i have a few people i work with that are the exact same way, i just let it go in 1 ear and out the other.

Perhaps in your zeal of the the Titan, you have turned them off. It is very easy for us to be excited about our trucks, and maybe talk them up a little more then people want to hear? I would go to them and flat out ask them what is up? Let them know you value their friendship, and if you did anything to jeopardize it, it was unintentional.

MrsJetTech
12-27-2004, 04:19 PM
If it was me I think I would start shopping for new friends. Simple as that.

12-27-2004, 04:27 PM
If it was me I think I would start shopping for new friends. Simple as that.

I KNOW you are not that cold MrsJT!!!!

12-27-2004, 04:42 PM
Perhaps in your zeal of the the Titan, you have turned them off. It is very easy for us to be excited about our trucks, and maybe talk them up a little more then people want to hear? I would go to them and flat out ask them what is up? Let them know you value their friendship, and if you did anything to jeopardize it, it was unintentional.[/quote]


I think you are right, BixLL. Since Shift is only 17 I doubt that many of his friends have new trucks. It is very easy for all of us to talk more about our new "toys" than other people want to hear.

To Shift - try backing off talking about your Titan. If your friends want to know something about it, take a ride or whatever, they will ask. Let them bring up the subject.
Good luck, I hope you work it out. A person can't have too many friends and you don't want to offend them, even though it is unintentional. :D

shift
12-27-2004, 07:34 PM
u would think that, but this kid has a 93 MR2 turbo, and another has a 98 @40sx, and the other two cant drive, and surprisingly i dont talk about it as much as they do their cars, im just gona ignore em and hangout with my other friends. thanx for the advice everyone :D

MrsJetTech
12-27-2004, 09:19 PM
If it was me I think I would start shopping for new friends. Simple as that.

I KNOW you are not that cold MrsJT!!!!

I can be a real pain in the you know what when you get me mad. :twisted:

Net4n6
12-28-2004, 02:32 AM
Wow. I didn't know there are people like that. It is hard when you are only 17 yrs old too. Real friends shouldn't treat you like that. Personally, I don't know what advice to give. I am speechless.

SMOKEDYA2
12-29-2004, 02:37 PM
people cant stand that we have a good product in our possession and its better than there crappy trucks. i have a few people i work with that are the exact same way, i just let it go in 1 ear and out the other.

Perhaps in your zeal of the the Titan, you have turned them off. It is very easy for us to be excited about our trucks, and maybe talk them up a little more then people want to hear? I would go to them and flat out ask them what is up? Let them know you value their friendship, and if you did anything to jeopardize it, it was unintentional.
im sure i used to talk about it more then they wanted to hear, but they didnt even give my truck a chance, they are all ford pepole and you cant do anything to change there minds. they didnt even want to go for a ride in it when i first got it because they didnt want to get caught dead riding around in a "forien piece of crap" was there exact words. pepole like this are not really your friend to begin with, just work acomplices